Why Are There Problem Children ?
The children's problem does not lie with the children. It lies with the families.
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This place is quite
hot, but the wind has blown away the heat a little bit, so that all of
you will not get burned by the sun's rays. I would like to express my
gratitude to the representatives of the state government as well as the
City Council for coming to speak to us today. We feel very honored. Each
of us should abide by the laws set up by the state and city governments.
Every citizen should abide by the country's laws as well and always act
in accord with the legislation. Today many people have talked about helping
children to resolve their problems. The children's problem
does not lie with the children. Where does it lie then? It lies with the
families. Nowadays, many families are broken families. What are broken
families? For example, in this country the divorce rate is very high.The
government actually encourages the trend of children being born outside
of marriage by supporting the mothers of those babies, giving them money
and putting them on welfare. This policy is destroying the trust and loyalty
that citizens place in their country. If we want to solve
the children's problem, we must start with the families. How? The divorce
rate should not be so high, and parents should not have children without
bothering to raise and teach them. Both parents should take the responsibility
of educating their children. You cannot say, "To give them freedom
means letting them do whatever they want!" If you don't discipline
them, then "Those who draw near rouge turn red; those who draw near
ink turn black," and "Those dyed in blue become blue; those
dyed in yellow become yellow." Children are influenced by their environment.
If you allow them to develop freely without any guidance and discipline,
they may develop to the point that they will kill, set fires, smuggle,
and deal in drugs. All they will think about is how to strike it rich.
That's the problem with free development. Free development is acceptable
within certain limits. We shouldn't let children have their own way completely.
Under the laws of this country, as soon as parents try to discipline their
children, the children can report them to the police and have them arrested
and imprisoned. I believe that since
parents gave birth to their children, they wouldn't intentionally abuse
them. Even if they were to discipline the children a little, they would
do it with discretion. It shouldn't be the case that parents don't even
dare to touch their own children, or scold them. That would certainly
spoil the children. By analogy, if you don't trim the branches of a growing
tree, the tree will only be good for firewood. However, if you trim the
tree well, then it will be able to hold great weight for tens of thousands
of years and its lumber will even be suitable for making pillars. Therefore,
we should teach our children with care. We should try to resolve the problems
that occur in families. |
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